i never blog on here anymore so i’m going to right now.
hmm what am i going to talk about? how about relationships? and love? and how we relate to each other?
for me a relationship is when two people exchange enough energy with each other that they become in tune with the other person’s vibe. by vibe i mean personality, beliefs, morals, values, looks, likes, dislikes, etc. a relationship can be platonic or romantic, but romantic love doesn’t necessarily have to be sexual and platonic love can be. there are no rules in relationships. to put rules on a relationship is to put it in a box, to restrict it, to force it to follow a set grid and guidelines. the only way to truly have a relationship is to let it do its thing with no rules, no silly labels, or restrictions. if your energy is in sync with someone elses, let it do its thing. the combination is beautiful and shouldn’t be hindered.
i used to believe that people were either friends, friends with benefits, or boyfriend/girlfriend. life has proven me wrong. the lines between don’t exist anywhere but within the oh so rigid rules of society. if we break free of them, we can let our relationships flourish and grow and reach their full potential.
you have shown me this. and although i’m sure you’ll never read this, i want you to know that you are neither my friend, my friend with benefits, or my boyfriend. you are someone who i find comfort in being with. someone who’s energy makes me happy and excited and nervous all at the same time. someone who i’ve grown to understand, and am loving what i’m understanding. you are a pure person who doesn’t give themself enough credit. sure you fuck up, everyone does. thats not important. what’s important is that you are truly a beautiful person and i’m so happy that you’ve decided to share as much of yourself as you have with me. may the relationship between us continue to grow and flourish. <3
